Creatively Aging

Poetry tells us the Truth

Posted in aging by creativeaging on July 6, 2009

To live in this world
you must be able
to do three things:
to love what is mortal;
to hold it
against your bones knowing
your own life depends on it;
and, when the time comes to let it go,
to let it go.

Mary Oliver wrote this and no truer truth could resonate more strongly with me after this last week. I like the poetry of landscapes but never realized quite how much the ‘Bard of Provincetown” might know about the work of  those in the trenches with our aging elders!

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To a dear friend, with thanks to Andrew Marvell

Posted in aging by creativeaging on July 2, 2009

The grave’s a fine and private place,
But none I think do there embrace.

Andrew Marvell had other matters in mind when he penned these lines but I thought of them this evening as I struggled to embrace a lonely and sick woman, perhaps a dying one, in her wheelchair. She sought the comfort of some human touch, a familiar face ,and friendly voice and in return I wrapped my arms around aluminum tubing. Sickness and death are surely a part of life but we have succeeded in making impersonal discomfort a part as well.

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